Everybody has to be somewhere, and for a great many, that somewhere is still in Toronto’s public green spaces, writes Rosie DiManno.
— Read on www.thestar.com/opinion/star-columnists/2022/10/23/as-winter-closes-in-the-most-vulnerable-hunker-down-in-city-parks.html
As many of you know Rosie and I have a difficult relationship. However, I must support her article in this post.
Homelessness is a serious issue and many of those people living in tents, have mental health issues. Some are complex and others are grieving the losses of someone they were close with, losing everything because loss hurts terribly.
On December 4th, 2020 I lost a very close friend dying in her tent at tent city in Kitchener, Ontario. Kory Berta had her struggles, losing her mother and father a few years earlier. Kory inherited her parents wealth, a little under $200,000, setting her boyfriend up with a small landscaping company. Shortly after the business was up and running she came home to find him in bed with another girl. She walked out of the relationship leaving everything behind. Still grieving the loss of her parents, now betrayed by her boyfriend, she wandered from couch to couch, eventually moving into the basement of my home. Within 6 months I asked her to leave because she was drowning herself in heavy drugs and alcohol. I had two kids and wouldn’t tolerate the situation I found myself in.
I eventually moved away from Waterloo and a short time later I received a call from her asking me for help again. She wanted to move out of the city and get clean. I told her I needed to speak with my kids about it and I would contact her. After careful consideration, discussions with my girls, I decided to tell Kory that I could not help her. I turned my back on her to put my family first.
A year later I was sitting having dinner when a call came through on my phone from Facebook. I noticed it was Kory’s daughter, Michelle. I knew something was wrong! Michelle was contacting me to inform me of her mother’s death at tent city.
Homelessness in Canada is at an all time high, getting worse. We don’t have enough affordable housing, nor do we have the resources available to deal with mental health waiting lists reaching six months to a year, yet, we have the money for safe injection sites offering free crack kits and needles so people can get high. Our priorities are mixed into a toxic cocktail of a society putting bandaids on issues while letting other issues bleed to death. I miss you Kory and I’m not sorry I put my family first. I’m sorry that we as a society aren’t doing enough to solve the issues of homelessness!
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